I was surprised when I asked parents to tell me the life skills they wish their kids knew, and there was a resounding request for a few topics:
- How to open a bank account
- How to budget & balance accounts
- How to write checks and pay bills
- And how to start saving for retirement
It seems some of the things we take for granted are, as a result, missing from what we teach kids.
In the last article, we focused on budgeting & balancing accounts. We even looked at games and contests you could set up for your kids. This article is the third article in the four-part series and will look at how to teach kids to write checks and pay bills.
I was a bit surprised when several parents recently reported they had teens that were going to pay a bill by sending cash. I guess the obvious isn’t so obvious.
Paying bills is often done online, so it’s important to teach kids how to protect their identity online and store their login information where it can’t be stolen or accessed.
However, there are still quite a few companies that don’t offer online payments, and the only way to pay their bills is via check in the mail.
All kids should know why you NEVER send cash, and how to write a check specifically for paying a bill. For example: putting your account number and any other required details in the memo.
This brings us to the next topic: writing checks.
When I was 12 years old, I went to outdoor ed. Oddly enough, part of the experience was that we could only write checks to buy goodies there, and our parents put a certain amount in our accounts so that we would also have to budget and balance our register.
Most of the kids were nervous! They weren’t sure how to fill out a check, and it was a great learning experience. I remember being nervous because we were required to fill out the amount in cursive, and I had trouble fitting it into the space.
These days, many kids never even think about writing checks because there are so many other means of transacting much more common; however, I’ve still found myself in need of checks for bills, paying contractors, and even helping me out of a pinch when I’ve forgotten my wallet.
Additionally, in my previous articles, I’ve expressed the dangers of using and relying on a debit card.
So how do you get your kids to learn how to write checks, and why would they care?
Getting Kids Involved
The best and most interactive way to teach kids to work a checkbook is to come up with a reason for them to write checks.
Here’s how it’s done:
Give your kids an old checkbook, play checkbook, or make your own (complete with a register). Then tell them in order to get certain things around the house, they’ll need to write checks. For example, to use their electronic device, there’s a rental fee that requires them to write you a check.
In addition, you can also give them a budget for the month to help them balance and budget their spending. You should balance a separate register so you can compare at the end of the month for accuracy.
Kids absolutely love this game.
Here are a few things you can charge for:
- Using electronic devices
- Watching TV (by the hour)
- Special snacks or treats
- Bicycle rental fee
- Getting out of a chore (limited usage)
At the end of the month, if your kids keep a positive balance they get a prize. If you have more than one kid, whoever is the most accurate in balancing their register can also get a prize.
A variation is to cut off the privileges if they run out of money. Some think this is harsh, but it does mimic the real world.
Writing checks is simple, and most kids love to learn because they feel more like an adult in the process.